"For kingship belongs to the Lord, and he rules over the nations." (Psalm 22:28) That title got your attention, didn't it? You are not alone. It seems like the vast majority of our nation is confused and frustrated by the current political atmosphere. I know I am. But, I read an article in Relevant Magazine recently and was struck by something the author wrote: “Political discourse is the Las Continue Reading
Dis-United States
“Life's most persistent and urgent question is, 'What are you doing for others?” Martin Luther King, Jr. "Do a deed of simple kindness; though its end you may not see, it may reach, like widening ripples, down a long eternity." Joseph Norris If you’re like me, you’re feeling very overwhelmed by what is happening in our world. It’s a lot, isn’t it? Here’s the thing, though. It is killing me to Continue Reading
I Disagree, and I Love You Deeply
Controversy is not a new phenomenon; it has existed from the beginning of time. How do we have honest and vulnerable conversations about controversial subjects in our families when we disagree? How do we teach our children to abide by the moral standards we have grown to understand as important? How do we differ in perspective from those whom we love and continue on in meaningful Continue Reading
Speaking Truth in Love
“Speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church,” Ephesians 4:15 Whether you are single, in a dating relationship, engaged, or married... you are likely in relationship with other human beings who are flawed, but full of beautiful and brilliant potential. We need to continue discovering the importance of communicating God's way. It Continue Reading
Biblical Submission in Marriage
I want to present the ideal Biblical perspective of this often taboo concept of “Submission-” that’s my goal. Why? Because people are confused by this topic. I work with people who love the Lord and are seeking pre-marital counseling who, when this issue arises, become terrified and try desperately to skirt around the issue. I know about extenuating and abusive circumstances, because I work Continue Reading
10 Denver Valentines Ideas
Valentine's Day, this Saturday, February 14 is around the corner- we're here to help you plan (especially you last minute guys)! Here are 10 great date ideas in Denver to help create enjoy some quality time for you and your loved one! 1. Culinary Date Night @ Cook Street School of Culinary Arts 1937 Market St. When: February 11-14 Plan an evening with the one you love at Cook Street Continue Reading
2 Ways to Overcome Stubbornness
“There's none so blind as those who will not listen.” Neil Gaiman Stubborn (adj.): having or showing persistent determination not to change one's attitude or position on something, esp. in spite of good arguments or reasons to do so. Difficult to move, remove, or cure. I see a lot of stubbornness in counseling… mostly from teenagers, but it is certainly not an issue that is limited to Continue Reading
6 Identity Questions
"Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children. 2 Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ." (Eph 5:1) "Those who do not want to imitate anything, produce nothing." Salvador Dali This week, I am leading our church's Men's Group. Our focus is on the development and awareness of our identity in Christ. I thought I would share some insights Continue Reading
Jesus & Boundaries
"...It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me..." (Galations 2:20). Becoming more Christ-like means understanding our limits, growing in our strengths, and establishing boundaries that keep us healthy. Jesus Had Needs: He understood that if you want to love your neighbor, you must first learn to love yourself (Matt 22:39). I love how Dr. Brene Brown puts it:“Daring to set Continue Reading
3 Boundary Questions
“There is a big difference between hurt and harm. We all hurt sometimes in facing hard truths, but it makes us grow. It can be the source of huge growth. That is not harmful. Harm is when you damage someone. Facing reality is usually not a damaging experience, even though it can hurt.” -Henry Cloud This month, we are going to focus on the topic of boundaries and explore many questions, Continue Reading
